The impaled would then die a slow death as he slowly slid down and onto the pole. He offers companionship, friendship, and even love before revealing his true and deadly nature appears silently and takes his pleasure ruthlessly and suffers for his sexual transgression by being shut out from the light and condemned to an eternity of darkness.” Haggerty wrote in Queer Gothic, “ The vampire moves with the suave invisibility of the prototypical gay man. #HOT GAY MEN PORN STARS VAMPIRE THE LAIR MOVIE#.